Author: nlbunner

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Some of our most entrenched habits were created because we do them all the time. Some are great, others, well, not do much. ☺️ Consider how introducing healthy coping resources, such as meditation and mindful practices, can help enrich our lives in a way that positively impacts every area. Practice makes powerful!

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If you’re anything like me, you may find that giving yourself a gift is a hard thing to do. Most people tend to be much better at giving gifts than receiving them. However, during this holiday season, we should find ways to give ourselves the things that matter. Let’s gift ourselves with grace, forgiveness, and many other well-deserved presents. We will be better people with these precious gifts.

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Someone once told me that authentic gratitude doesn’t happen by accident. I totally agree. Being intentional about expressing thankfulness has enhanced my relationships with myself and others. As chaotic as 2020 has been, it truly has been my saving grace this year. Don’t just take my word for it! Try it; it’s a game changer!

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Empathy is a powerful force that allows us to take our own pain and use it as a reference when showing compassion to others. Although it comes at a cost, let us be grateful for empathy. When we hold space for another person, allowing our personal experiences to connect us with someone else, we are experiencing one of life’s most mindful gifts.

During this holiday week, let us gift others with empathy. It may be easier to lean into the tension that comes with family gatherings but by allowing ourselves to express and receive empathy, we may be able to experience a truly wonderful season.

Reflection: How can I practice empathy today?

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In a world where emotional restriction is seen as strength, 2020 has taught us that we can have all the feelings as it is part of our humanity. Personally, I am extremely thankful to see open expression of feelings in my life circles. It shows that we are becoming okay with being our authentic selves, fully. We are recognizing that our emotions should not be stigmatized but acknowledged and valued. We FEEL. And we are healthier for it. ❤️

Reflection: What expression of emotion am I most grateful for this year?

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Just say “thank you”. There’s so much power in gratitude. When we keep our eyes peeled for the good things in life, whether large or small, we realize that they are everywhere and our gratitude grows. I am incredibly grateful for you all and say a prayer of thanks over your week. Happy Thanksgiving!

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Once again, @keeleyshawart gives us space to reflect on the state of our heart. How are we doing today? How is our heart feeling? Are we experiencing anxiety or are we filled with peace?

Take a moment and breathe. Conduct a body scan, from the top of your head to the soles of your feet, and assess how you feel. Are you where you want to be? If not, how can you get there?

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Credit: @poetsandwriters

Perhaps, in our quest to present our best selves, we have prioritized being physically strong over total well-being. Poetsandwriters explores what it looks like to be strong in our hearts and minds.

What does being mentally strong look like to you?

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In this season of thankfulness, let’s take the time to express gratitude for the resilience and fortitude that this year has created within us. Nothing builds character like critical life challenges and, although they are not fun to experience, they have contributed to the awesome, courageous people that we are. So, remember, you are GREAT and are created to do amazing things! Lean into that this week!

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@what.is.mental.illness is consistent in providing us room to reflect on who we are versus what we do. How do we separate the two and prioritize the things that makes us US?

Based on what define us, who are you?

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I don’t know anyone who doesn’t want to be happy. However, there are many people who aren’t. Could it be because the focus isn’t on things that brings true joy? I know that when I’m focused on temporary pleasures that find myself ultimately disappointed when my happiness isn’t sustained. I appreciate @letstalk_mentalhealth for exploring those temporary things so that we can recenter our focus on what matters.

What areas of your life brings you true happiness?

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This year has revealed our propensity to challenge the status quo and fight for what we think is right. Election year is hard for many but we always have the opportunity to be good humans. Embrace the goodness in you and show gratitude to those who strive to show decency in their everyday lives. Humanity lives!!

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My friend, @kaypelloquin, posted this recently and I can’t unsee it. How many of us have been seeing only the underbelly of 2020 and have missed the life-altering, revolutionary lessons it has taught us. This year has been a huge challenge but it has also been a testimony of our courage, strength and resilience.

This week will be no different. It will have its challenges, its ups and downs and opportunities to learn and grow. Take a minute and embrace this moment. Don’t miss the lesson. Bring this year close to you and see how it can make you a better person.

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@wholeheartedschoolcounseling is one of my favorite sites because it provides practical, assessible resources for children and adults. When we consider how many issues we have encounter in our lives, it is imperative that we embrace the prayer to accept the things we cannot change and change the things we can.

What are the things we can manage? How can we do it effectively? What is our healthiest response to thing we cannot control?

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Remember, you were created at this time for a purpose. Lean in with gratitude for the characteristics that have prepared you for this week. Be thankful for the support that you have around you that lift you up. Move in power and gratitidue this week!

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It’s amazing how, after living mindfully for a while, something can come along (like the possibility of another tropical storm) to throw us off of our rhythm? This is when we have to go back to the basics and remind ourselves to breathe. Do we need to experience another storm in 2020? No! But can we thrive despite it? Yes! So, let’s slow down a bit and mindfully reflect on our resilience. We’ve got this!

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In today’s climate, literal and otherwise, it is easy to get caught up in the negative . What if, we focused on challenging unhelpful thoughts with what is possible? When we find ourselves bogged down with negative thinking, we can come into the light when we balance our thinking with healthy, positive perspective. Let’s be willing to ask ourselves these critical questions and expand our minds to see the good in every challenge.

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“What brings you joy?”

There is joy in finding the things that enhances our lives. Explore the what and who brings joy into our everyday world and express thankfulness to them. More importantly, find ways to create intrinsic happiness within ourselves. Be willing to spend time with ourselves as this can significantly increase gratitude. Our lives will be the better for it!

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To be inspired is great but, to inspire is an honor

Stacy T. Hunt

We all have people in our lives that inspire us. They show us the power of perseverance, how to rally with resilience and highlights the characteristics of a champion. They are the people that we desire to emulate; we want to be like them and have their impact on the world. I wonder if we realize how many people feel the same way about us? They admire our perseverance, our resilience, and our contribution to the world around us.

Take a moment and reflect: How can we continue to “aspire to inspire”?

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Being an inspiration is hard work; we are not perfect creatures and sometimes, the weight of ‘getting it right’ can feel daunting. But, remember, people are drawn to our ability to manage the hard days as much as they are to our triumphs. It is not perfection that inspires people. It is persistence.

Thank you, @wholeheartedschoolcounseling for this reminder!

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Take a minute and be mindful about those who inspire you. What do they inspire you to do? What accomplishments have you achieved due to their awe-inspiring words or actions? Find space to show gratitude for them today. Know that, just as you are thankful for them, someone out there is grateful for you.

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“Set it all down and rest awhile.” It seems so simple but, living it out can be one of the most courageous things you’ve ever done. It requires us to pause, evaluate our mental and emotional load, and discard what is unnecessary weighing us down. Only then can we effectively take our next step.

What a journey this is!

Thank you, Stacie Swift, for always bringing us back to the present. Now, let us breathe, reflect then act. The world can wait.

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Speaking of discarding unnecessary weight from our lives, which of these should we commit to letting go of?

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When we can acknowledge and be thankful for our own resilience, kindness and strength, then it becomes easier to practice appreciation to those around you who are also striving for betterment. Gratitude leads to appreciation.

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stacieswift speaks truth when she express that “it’s okay”…

I think sometimes we try to get many things done as quickly as possible so that we can feel fulfilled and accomplished. But there is great beauty in being able to slow down, take a deep breath and BE. It’s okay if we don’t get every single thing done on our to-do list today. If we are able to become one with our mind, body and spirit, embracing our whole being and moving mindfully through the day, we have already accomplished something amazing.

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Thank you, wholeheartbeing for this opportunity to explore our connections with those around us. Reflecting on what our relationships bring into our lives and how they impact how we understand ourselves is a significant part of relational health. Assess your relationships. Be willing to positively contribute to the healthy ones and release those who are not. You’ll be glad you did!

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Some days are harder than others. Yet, here you are, striving to accomplish big things. Whether it’s forcing yourself out of bed while deep in the blues or pushing to conquer that intimidating project, show self gratitude for your courage to give your best effort. Your resilience and persistence will pay off. I wish you warriors the best of weeks!

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Keeley Shaw is one of my absolute faves on social media. Her ability to articulate deep meaning through art is awe-inspiring! Consider this piece on “Random Acts of Kindness”…

We find ourselves in search of goodness throughout the day. We seek it and, once we receive it, return that goodness in kind. For us, that is a good day. But, what if we inverted the experience? What if, on the journey to Becoming, we sought ways to give goodness instead? What would our day look like if we initiated the good things we seek from the world?

Let us take a mindful minute to inhale and exhale kindness into the atmosphere. Kindness towards ourselves, those we love and to the world. Let us be the good into our lives today.

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Thank you, alex_elle, for the thought-provoking reminder! Becoming is less immediate and more of a life-long experience. May we maintain the bravery necessary to make the journey.

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For every breath, I am grateful. Take this quote with you today.

“Be thankful for a breath of fresh air to be alive and well. Allow love and happiness to penetrate throughout your mind and soul. Take time to relax and live in the moment, the now, the present. Enjoy today.” – Amaka Imani Nkosazana